What are the ‘Seven Habits of Highly
Effective Christians’?
In a recent Sunday Gospel Jesus tells us: ’You
are the light of the world.’ The first reading from the prophet Isaiah in the
Old Testament on that Sunday also tells us of seven ways in which we can be a light to others. There are seven
practical things all of us can do – and these are the ‘Seven Habits of Highly
Effective Christians’ – based on a book entitled ‘The 7 Habits of Highly
Effective People.’ We can attend to the habits one day per week - or one week for
each of the weeks of Lent.
I
thought it might be helpful to make the text available and perhaps can be used
as material for Lent beginning on March 1st as seven practical
things we can do for Lent.
HABIT 1 (day one/week one)
‘Share your bread with the hungry’
This
means that we should take a good hard look at our food budget and trim the
possibility of waste and throwing out food on the one hand, and avoid
overspending and gluttony on the other. We should look at the cupboard and
start at last to cook with what we have. We must look to our cramped freezers
and start to defrost and eat the dinners we have stored over the past six
months. We must spend only in order to use up what we have before the next
major food buy. Non-perishables and money saved can be given to the poor, but
we should try to factor in the hungry in our budget all the time – give to a
soup kitchen or food charity.
HABIT 2 (day two/week two)
‘Shelter the homeless poor’
The
plight of homelessness is a blight in our society. Hardly a week goes by when
we do not hear of another scandal involving unoccupied houses owned by the
banks and at the same time the increase of rent prices and the abandonment of
homes by people who have fallen on hard times. It is a scandal that there are
tens of thousands of unoccupied homes in our country while people die from
exposure on our streets. And what have we done? Have we given to a homeless
charity? Have we lobbied politicians and others who represent us? Politicians
will only act and really show practical care when we do.
HABIT 3 (day three/week three)
‘Clothe the man you see to be naked’
Well,
we go back now to our homes and our bulging wardrobes and closets. It’s time to
get rid of half of our clothing and blankets, everything we haven’t worn in the
last two years, I suggest. Not to make way for more clothing to fill the gap,
mind! We can’t complain that ‘we have nothing to wear’ when there are others
who can genuinely say it.
HABIT 4 (day four/week four)
‘Do not turn from your own kin’
We
have heard the expression ‘charity begins at home’, and this is so true. Our
charity is a pretence if we ignore the needs of our own family such as a needy
parent or grandparent, a brother or sister in financial difficulty, and so on.
Turning your back is a refusal to see them, literally. There are two directions
of course – if we are the guilty party in a misunderstanding we should try to
make an effort to seek forgiveness; on the other hand if they are guilty of
wrongdoing we should at least keep the lines of communication open to them in
the hope of reconciliation. In all instances pray for them.
HABIT 5 (day five/week five)
‘Do away with the yoke and give relief
to the oppressed’
This
means to forgive debts and to unburden people of what weighs them down – we can
of course give material relief to bail people out of debt – and give to relief
agencies caring for refugees for example, but I think also at a local level of
what it means to bear one another’s burdens. How many people ‘out there’ need
to unburden themselves of pain of problems, of worry, anxiety, loneliness,
depression? All they ask for is a listening ear and the time we can spare to
sit down and really listen.
HABIT 6 (day six/week six)
‘[Do away with] the clenched fist’
This
means extending our hand - in friendship and also doing away with anger,
hatred, resentment, and begin the process of healing. It means no more displays
of temper and impatience or acting out of spitefulness or mean spiritedness.
Unclenching our fists means letting go.
HABIT 7 (day seven/week seven)
‘[Do away with] the wicked word’
Of
the thousands of words we utter each day (about, or to, others) how many of
them are kind and necessary or out of generous selfless concern for another
person? How many of them, by way of contrast, are gossipy, slanderous,
malicious, back-biting or answering back? We all talk about others. It is
unavoidable in itself. But I suppose a good measure of what I say about others
or the manner I say it is how comfortable I would be if they walked in on the
conversation unexpectedly? The positive words I say can increase the light in
me and others while negativity can diminish the light within.
Now let us look at the reading on its
entirety
Isaiah 58:7-10
Thus says the Lord:
Share your
bread with the hungry,
and shelter
the homeless poor,
clothe the
man you see to be naked
and do not
turn from your own kin.
THEN WILL YOUR LIGHT SHINE LIKE THE DAWN
and your wound be quickly healed over.
Your integrity will go before you
and the glory of the Lord behind you.
Cry, and the Lord will answer;
call, and he will say, ‘I am here.’
If you do
away with the yoke,
the clenched
fist, the wicked word,
if you give your bread to the hungry,
and relief
to the oppressed,
YOUR LIGHT WILL RISE IN THE DARKNESS,
AND YOUR SHADOWS BECOME LIKE NOON.
The good we do
can make up now for the wounds we have caused by sin – by our neglect of God’s
precepts and our failure to be a light in the past.
Finally, the
funny thing about light of course is that it must have a source –and that is
Christ the light of the world, and also that light reflects, lights up, is
diffused. Light as a form of energy can neither be created nor destroyed but
transformed into another form of energy so the light I radiate – received from
Christ in prayer – can light up the darkness in others’ lives - and they in
turn can be a light to others.
SO LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE [THIS
LENT!]
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